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You've been messaging with your friend nonstop when suddenly you receive a confusing abbreviation: "TBH." What could that mean? Luckily, this article is here to help. Read on to learn the different meanings of "TBH" over text, on Snapchat, and on Instagram. We'll also give you a complete guide on how to respond to the abbreviation and use it yourself.

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What does TBH mean on Instagram?

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  1. Though TBH still stands for “to be honest” on Instagram, it holds a slightly different meaning if it's used as a noun. If you run across an Instagram post that reads “Like for a TBH,” it means they’ll share what they really think about you if you like their post.[3]
    • To get even more details, someone might caption their post “Like for a TBH and rate.” This means the user will rate your attractiveness or personality on a scale from 1 to 10 if you like their post.
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How to Use TBH in Texting and on Snapchat

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  1. If you're just getting to know someone, you might be a little afraid to let them know how you really feel. Adding "TBH" to your Snapchat message or text can show the person that you're really putting yourself out there.
    • "I think your art is amazing TBH. I really look up to you as an artist!"
    • "TBH you're like the funniest person I've ever met."
    • "TBH I've always had a crush on you."
  2. This abbreviation is a great choice when you're discussing your opinion on something or someone, whether it be a movie, artist, or political issue. If you think their perspective might be different or you're simply curious, ask the person you're messaging what they think as well.
    • "TBH I've always loved the comic book, but I wasn't a fan of the movie version."
    • "TBH I've never been able to get into that show, but I totally see why other people like it."
    • "I thought that homework assignment was really hard TBH. How did you feel about it?"
  3. If you feel super strongly about something, "TBH" can lessen the blow and show you're just being honest. Add the abbreviation to let this person know that you're sharing your true feelings, whether they like it or not.
    • "TBH I liked your first draft better."
    • "TBH he's a great player, but I don't think he's the best on the team."
    • "I hate the weather here TBH."
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How do you reply to TBH over text and on Snapchat?

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  1. If someone messaged you something they like about you, let them know that you're grateful for their words. You can even send a compliment in return if you share fond feelings for them.
    • "Thanks so much. That's so sweet of you!"
    • "Aw, thank you. That means so much to me."
    • "Thanks! I think you're pretty cute, too. 🥰"
  2. When someone messages you their critique or feedback about something, let them know if you agree or disagree. To avoid a heated conversation, word your message kindly and let them know you respect their opinion.
    • "That's a super interesting critique! I actually thought the play was well-written."
    • "OMG I totally agree with you about this album. Seriously the best band I've heard in a while."
    • "I didn't enjoy that teacher's class, but I can see how other people would. I've just never been that good at math."
  3. If someone sent you an insult on Snapchat or over text, respectfully share how their message made you feel. Though you might be tempted to insult them in return, it's best to word your message kindly to avoid making the situation worse. If you're not comfortable responding, simply ignore their message.
    • "That hurt my feelings."
    • "I'm kinda sad to hear that."
    • "I understand that's your opinion, but this message made me feel a little disrespected."
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How do you reply to TBH on Instagram?

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  1. When someone sends you a kind message after you liked their post, tell them that it meant a lot to you. You might even send them a compliment in return to show your appreciation.
    • "Aw, thanks so much. That's good to hear."
    • "You're so nice! Thank you. 🙂"
    • "I've always thought you were super cool, too."
  2. Liking this person's Instagram post doesn't give them an excuse to be unkind. If someone sends you a hurtful TBH, tell them that their message hurt your feelings. To avoid drama, resist the urge to insult them back. Alternatively, you can also ignore their message.
    • "I'm a little hurt by this message."
    • "That's tough to hear, but you're entitled to your opinion."
    • "I'm disappointed that you feel that way."
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This article was co-authored by Imad Jbara and by wikiHow staff writer, Madeleine Criglow. Imad Jbara is a Dating Coach for NYC Wingwoman LLC, a relationship coaching service based in New York City. 'NYC Wingwoman' offers matchmaking, wingwoman services, 1-on-1 Coaching, and intensive weekend bootcamps. Imad services 100+ clients, men and women, to improve their dating lives through authentic communication skills. He has a BA in Psychology from the University of Massachusetts Dartmouth. This article has been viewed 37,815 times.
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